questions about MN 21. 1. what are thoughts of household life referring to? In SN 54.8, it's clear household thoughts would be monks desiring some household pleasures, perhaps even tempting enough to disrobe. But in MN 21, I can't imagine what it means. Don't monks and nuns also have thoughts and desire to protect people being attacked? I could see if the suttas said it was a lay person's "speech", and not a monk's 'speech' to react with displeasure. 2. what is the simile of the catskin bag mean? the previous similes with earth, space, obviously make the connection with 'appamana' being unlimited in metta and ability to withstand criticism. But I can't see what the catskin bag is alluding to. 3. Why is it in the case with the nuns and monk mixing, the Buddha's instructions don't include sending metta to the attacker, and then using the attacker as a basis to send metta to the entire world, as it does in the other examples in...
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